Getting Kids to Talk: The Questions Game

What happens after these kids leave for school in the morning?

Does this happen to you? You are sitting around the dinner table with your kids after a full day of work (for you) and school (for them) and you ask them, "How was school?" Their response? A muttered, monosyllabic, "Fine," or worse, "Dunno." Well, it happened to me all the time. I was dying to know what they learned in class, who they played with … [Read more...]

Halloween Party Snacks and a Good Day with my Kids

I am swamped this week grading papers for my day job, so I am reposting this seasonal entry from the 2010 West of the Loop archives with lots of fun ideas for Halloween party food. Some of the kids in Zuzu"s grade still remember me as the mom who made the watermelon brain for the 2nd grade Halloween party..... As most of my friends know, I feel … [Read more...]

Back to School Shopping with The Children's Place

Zuzu loves this basketball-themed graphic tee from The Children's Place because it reflects her sporty style

It has felt like late October in Chicago this week. Temperatures have dipped down into the 40"s and 50"s at night and hovered in the low 70"s during the day. Some people are not ready to let go of summer yet, but personally I love this kind of weather. Fall in Chicago would be my favorite season if it were not for the underlying dread about the … [Read more...]

Is Watching Football Ethical?


The following post is a departure for West of the Loop. There are no recipes or cute anecdotes about my children. With this post, I am wading into much more controversial waters than is typical for me. But the subject of this post is something that I have been thinking about and discussing with my husband repeatedly over the past year, if not … [Read more...]

Fun at GapKids Shine On Event

This post is sponsored by GapKids. Check out all the fun Shine On activities at your nearest Gap store. For event dates and locations, visit Gap’s Facebook page and join the conversation on Twitter with hashtag #ShineOn. Last Saturday, as promised, I took my kids to the first of the GapKids Shine On Saturday events here in Chicago. We arrived at … [Read more...]

Shine On with GapKids for Back-to-School

This post is sponsored by GapKids. Check out all the fun Shine On activities at your nearest Gap store. For event dates and locations, visit Gap’s Facebook page and join the conversation on Twitter with hashtag #ShineOn.   I know that back-to-school shopping is supposed to be a big deal. Parents receive a daunting list of supplies -- from … [Read more...]

Vacation Find: My Vintage Lilly Pulitzer

Current Vintage was the name of the store. Intrigued by the dress in the window, I crossed the street intending to poke my head in. My mother was confused by the crates of wine outside. "I think it"s a liquor store," she said. "No, it"s clothes," I replied opening the door. Once inside, I was instantly drawn to the rack of colorful Lilly Pultizer … [Read more...]

Would You Send Your Kids to Camp on Vacation?

We are halfway through our two-week trip to the island of Nantucket, which means that my kids have just finished their first week of camp. Yes, even on vacation, I like my kids to have some structure to their day and I like to have a little break from them. So that is why Zuzu is spending her weekday mornings at Nantucket Community Sailing"s Water … [Read more...]

Staying Sane with My Job Chart

Did you know that my family has a weekly family meeting? It's usually on Sunday afternoons and we have done it ever since Zuzu was in kindergarten. Once JR turned five this past January, he was allowed to participate in Family Meeting as well. I know my friends smile at me behind my back for being so dogmatic about it. They think it is another … [Read more...]

Using Technology for Good with Ruckus Reader

One of the first things that JR says to me when he comes into my room in the morning is: "Can I play iPad?" I"m usually so desperate to eke out a few more minutes of sleep that I merely grunt in assent while he helps himself to the iPad. And so begins the screen time battle for the day. Apparently I am not the only parent with a 5 year old iPad … [Read more...]

Getting a Kid Ready for Overnight Camp: an Everyday Victory for Mom

Thank you to P&G and Kroger stores for celebrating “Team Mom’s Everyday Victories”! Please visit the P&G"s event page to play games, win money off your next Kroger trip and more fun! Zuzu leaves on Monday for her first time at sleepaway camp. She has been waiting for this day since last October when we signed her up. You see, the camp she … [Read more...]

My Kid is Part Werewolf (Repost)

JR seems to have come down with a bug this weekend. It"s a rare occurrence that our little guy is sick.  He actually hasn"t missed any preschool this year because of illness, save one afternoon when I pulled him out early to have the pediatrician look at the weird rash that had spread across his face. (Rashes he gets a lot. Although he is almost … [Read more...]

Spring Cleaning with Toydozer

My house recently got a dramatic makeover. A few months ago, my mom sold the house that she and my dad lived in for over twenty years and moved into a very cool apartment. Naturally, she could not bring everything from a five-bedroom house to her two-bedroom apartment, so there was a lot of extra furniture. order zithromax pak My parents had some … [Read more...]

Passover Recipe: Moroccan Meatball Stew

West of the Loop was on Spring Break last week, enjoying some sun and sand in Naples, Florida. While the vacation was fun and even relaxing, it is a shock to come home and realize that Passover starts in only a few days. As you begin planning for the holiday, here is a re-post from last year at this time with a handy Passover recipe. When I was a … [Read more...]

PDPW Conference in Madison

West of the Loop went on the road last week. (A special thanks to my mom who came to help out with the kids while I was gone.) The Professional Dairy Producers of Wisconsin (PDPW) held their annual conference in Madison, WI on March 13 and 14. The conference organizers invited me and two of my blogging friends, Sara from Self Made Mom and Chef … [Read more...]

The Second Chicago Food Swap

The second Chicago Food Swap took place today, St. Patrick"s Day, and it was a huge success! I am still glowing from the foodie love. After the December food swap, which was small but fun, my co-founder, Chef Druck, and I had looked around in vain for a more centrally located space that we could use. Our problem was price. We wanted to pay … [Read more...]

Eyelash Tinting: a Great Tip for Busy Moms

This is not a beauty blog. But this is a blog about keeping one"s head above water as a busy mom. So while I would not normally write about a beauty treatment, when I come across a beauty treatment that is affordable for regular people, can help streamline your morning routine, and will make a difference in how you look, well, that seems fitting … [Read more...]

Dessert with Friends at Hanukkah

Thanks to Duncan Hines for sponsoring my writing. There"s no limit to the baking possibilities, so grab your favorite Duncan Hines mix and Comstock or Wilderness fruit fillings and Bake On! This weekend we are hosting a small gathering of friends to celebrate Hanukkah, which starts on the night of December 20. The traditional … [Read more...]

Christmas Culture Wars

This post originally appeared at this time last year on my local blogging community site, The Chicago Moms. It's timely once again and my sentiments have not changed, so I am reposting for 2011. At this time of year, there is a lot of discussion in the media about what I call the Christmas culture wars.  In a multi-ethnic society like ours, where … [Read more...]

Musical Holiday Comforts

This post is sponsored by Tempur-Pedic, the brand millions of owners trust to deliver their best night’s sleep every night. Enjoy our Buy 2, get 1 free pillow offer now and give the gift of custom comfort to someone you love. Thanksgiving comes this week and with it the official start of the winter holiday season. The holiday season has a … [Read more...]

Got Confusion? The Truth about Milk

What kind of milk does your family drink? Do you pay more for organic? Do you shop around for the best price? When I was a kid, the only question was whether you drank skim or 2% or maybe whether your mom let you have chocolate milk. These days grocery stores carry a dizzying array of choices in the dairy aisle. Some people have very strong … [Read more...]

Do-It-Yourself Tween Rock Star Birthday Party

One of the most viewed West of the Loop posts ever is this one about Zuzu's 7th birthday party which was a DIY American Girl Doll party. Remember? That was the party where I made tiny doll-sized food. I'll admit that that was a little hard-core. The truth is, I love doing Zuzu's birthday parties at home. For all their sassy back talk and begging … [Read more...]

Parenting in the Digital Age

Parenting in the digital age has numerous challenges that we anticipate -- cyber-bullying and "sexting" to name two -- and even more that we don"t anticipate. While my children are not old enough for Facebook profiles or their own phones, I still find that parenting them in the age of WiFi and TiVo is full of issues and dilemmas that my own parents … [Read more...]

Urban Mom Salon: the best idea ever?

Raise your hand if you are a mom who has ever hired a babysitter so that you could get a mani-pedi or a bikini wax or, dear Lord, just get your highlights done. I seriously don't know any mom who hasn't done this at some point. Okay, I'm sure that there are some moms out there who don't color their hair or get their nails done, but, frankly, none … [Read more...]

Cooking without a Recipe: Brisket

This past week marked the Jewish holiday of Rosh Hashanah. Last year at this time, I wrote a post about enjoying Rosh Hashanah dinner with my friend and fellow blogger Vanessa AKA Chef Druck and I shared my recipe for sweet carrot tzimmes -- the vegetables cut into rounds to resemble gold coins for a prosperous new year. This year, I am happy to … [Read more...]