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The Parenting Walk of Shame

JR was all smiles while in the pool

At four and a half, JR is a far more civilized creature than the binky-dependent rageaholic of a year ago. But at the same time, he is as strong-willed and singularly-minded as ever. His most frustrating trait, for me as his mother, is his insistence on raging [...]

Back to School with Blue Sky Home Series

Stylish organization from Blue Sky

My children both head back to school in a few weeks. This fall is shaping up to be our busiest one ever. Now that Zuzu is in third grade, her schedule is jam-packed with activities. I don’t think of myself as one of those parents who overschedules her child, but [...]

Part II: San Diego Without Kids

Bone marrow appretizer at JSix

After three days of vacation in San Diego, I said goodbye to my family, who were on their way to Los Angeles — via Disneyland — to visit cousins. I remained in San Diego for three days of work, namely a one-day writing conference entitled Women Create Media followed by [...]

San Diego, With and Without Kids

Watching the surfers from Ocean Beach Pier

Part 1: San Diego With Kids

 
Despite being weighed down by sadness over my father’s illness, my family embarked on a vacation to California last week. Naturally, it felt strange to focus on something as frivolous as a vacation when my father’s condition was so serious. But, as it [...]

Being a Daughter, Being a Mother

My parents with their grandkids

As many of you have heard, my father is gravely ill at the moment. I don’t want to discuss the details of his illness because my father is a very private person and because it is not my place to do so. But I am compelled to write about the conflict I feel [...]

Small Things Help

Win this Jabra Bluetooth in-car speakerphone!

Do you Bluetooth? I must admit, until only a few weeks ago, I did not have a Bluetooth for talking on the phone while driving. Yes, I know that Illinois requires a hands-free device while using the phone in the car. But, you know me: I’m a rebel who won’t be [...]

On Imaginary Friends

JR is always very firm in his convictions.

One of my all-time favorite articles from The New Yorker is a 2002 piece by Adam Gopnik about his daughter Olivia’s imaginary friend, Charlie Ravioli. The funny thing about Charlie Ravioli, aside from his wonderful name, was that he was always too busy to play with Gopnik’s daughter; at dinner, Olivia would [...]

Fourth of July at the Summer Shack

Harvard Yard: now known as where Facebook began

Over the Fourth of July weekend, my family traveled to Boston, which seems appropriate somehow. We were there to spend some time with my husband’s brother and his wife, who live in Boston, and my husband’s parents, who lived in Boston in the early days of their marriage. [...]

Summer Memories

Summer is better with sombreros

Why is it that summer memories burn a little brighter in our subconscious than other memories? One whiff of Fritos and I am instantly transported back to my childhood pool club; my mom used to pack a Thermos of lemonade and bags of Fritos and Doritos for a forced snack time on the [...]

No Guilt Over Wishing Your Kids Would Just Go To Sleep

Today we have a guest post from my friend Cary Berkeley Kaye, a lawyer and mother of an adorable toddler. Cary, like most of us, saw the fake children’s book Go the F*** to Sleep, which went viral on Facebook and other sites, and had a good laugh about it. (I actually saw the author, who is a real [...]

Racial Stereotypes in Kiddie Lit

This post originally appeared earlier this week on my new blogging community, The Chicago Moms. I hope that you will swing by and check out some of great voices being featured there.

One of my favorite parts of being a parent is introducing my children to the books and movies that I loved as a kid. Now that Zuzu is [...]

In Praise of Rituals: A Father's Day Guest Post

Today we have a guest post about being a dad in honor of Father’s Day from none other than Zuzu and JR’s dad, that is to say, my husband. I hope he realizes that publishing his guest post here actually constitutes his Father’s Day gift from me.

My kids are lucky to have such a great [...]

My Kid is Part Werewolf

Like Kate Middleton on her wedding day, JR does his own makeup.

I have been laid low this week with a summer cold. Henry James once said that “summer afternoon” is the most beautiful phrase in the English language. If that is so, then “summer cold” must be one of the ugliest. The cause of [...]

What's on Your Summer To-Do List? How about a trip to Six Flags Great America!

I’m known for making to-do lists. I always have several going at a time: an overall to-do list, lists for the kids, lists for the house and a list of what has to get done each day. Even though I live on my iPhone and now on my brand-new iPad 2 (thanks, honey!), I still [...]

Can You Affair-Proof Your Marriage?

In honor of my ninth wedding anniversary later this week, I’m writing about divorce and infidelity.

My husband and I will celebrate our ninth wedding anniversary this week.

Not to worry, no one in my house is getting divorced or having my affair. To the contrary, I rather like my husband. We are united against our common enemy, namely [...]

Making Time for My Big Kid

So, Zuzu is my mini-me, even more so from the back!

For the past few months, it has felt like interactions with my daughter are limited to: “Zuzu, do your homework.” “Zuzu, practice piano!” “Zuzu, your room is a mess.” “No Zuzu, you can’t watch the episode of ’Sonny with a Chance” where Sonny discovers there are two Chads [...]

No Babies at the Symphony

This post originally appeared earlier this week on my new blogging community, The Chicago Moms. I hope that you will swing by and check out some of great voices being featured there.

Outdoor concerts are great for all ages. Not so much the Symphony.

I have written before about my love for the CSO’s Kraft Family Matinee series. This series [...]

Hitting Close to Home

Today’s post is part of the From Left to Write online book club. The idea of this book club is not to write a book review, per se, but rather to write a post in which the blogger connects that month’s book to an experience from his or her own life. One of the book club books for May is Good [...]

My Take on Mother's Day

A year ago, I wrote the following post for the Chicago Moms Blog about Mother’s Day and my discomfort with the hype surrounding the holiday. On the eve of Mother’s Day 2011, I thought I would repost it here. This week’s Oak Park Patch also had a provocative Moms Council post about Mother’s Day, which [...]

Type A Poetry

Did Zuzu write the winning haiku for the Type A Parent conference pass?

Zuzu’s second grade class recently finished a unit on expository writing – leading her to say things like “diagrams are a convention of informational texts, Mommy” – and started a unit on poetry. I was interested to see how the wonderful Mrs. M. would teach the kids [...]

Passover Recipe: Moroccan Meatball Stew

Moroccan meat ball stew

When I was a junior in college, I spread the year studying abroad in Paris.  I had many wonderful, unique experiences that year, from traveling all over Europe, to eating marvelous food to getting to know the ins and outs of one of the world’s greatest cities. But one of the most [...]

The Violent World of Little Boys

The Boy Wonder prepares to duel his nemesis, Evil Mom Lady

JR had his friend, A., over to play this week when our preschool was closed for Passover. A.’s mother is a good friend of mine so she stayed for some caffeine and company. The moms were chatting in the kitchen when the boys appeared, [...]

Updating Traditions

 Thank you to Log Cabin for sponsoring my post about updated traditions in my household. To learn more about Log Cabin Syrups (which are all free of High Fructose Corn Syrup), breakfast for dinner, and other new ways to update traditions in your home, click here. I was selected for this sponsorship by the Clever [...]

An Ultra Date Night

Dinner at Carnivale: breaking out of my suburban rut

One of my three New Year’s resolutions was to have a monthly date night with my husband. When you have small children and busy schedules and limited funds, it is so easy to find yourself sitting in front of a DVD — or more likely in [...]

One Is Up, the Other One Down

Lately, J.R. has been our own Boy Wonder.

When my husband was in college, he and his best friend had a theory that things could only be going well for one of them at a time. If one was up, the other was inevitably down.

Who knew that was also true with children?

Since turning four at [...]