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The next Chicago Food Swap will take place on June 3 at 3 pm. We are excited to announce our new location: the Savory Spice Shop in Hinsdale. Registration is filling up fast so don't wait! We will start a waiting list once we fill all 30 spots.

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In Praise of Rituals: A Father's Day Guest Post

Today we have a guest post about being a dad in honor of Father’s Day from none other than Zuzu and JR’s dad, that is to say, my husband. I hope he realizes that publishing his guest post here actually constitutes his Father’s Day gift from me.

My kids are lucky to have such a great [...]

My Kid is Part Werewolf

Like Kate Middleton on her wedding day, JR does his own makeup.

I have been laid low this week with a summer cold. Henry James once said that “summer afternoon” is the most beautiful phrase in the English language. If that is so, then “summer cold” must be one of the ugliest. The cause of [...]

What's on Your Summer To-Do List? How about a trip to Six Flags Great America!

I’m known for making to-do lists. I always have several going at a time: an overall to-do list, lists for the kids, lists for the house and a list of what has to get done each day. Even though I live on my iPhone and now on my brand-new iPad 2 (thanks, honey!), I still [...]

Can You Affair-Proof Your Marriage?

In honor of my ninth wedding anniversary later this week, I’m writing about divorce and infidelity.

My husband and I will celebrate our ninth wedding anniversary this week.

Not to worry, no one in my house is getting divorced or having my affair. To the contrary, I rather like my husband. We are united against our common enemy, namely [...]

No Babies at the Symphony

This post originally appeared earlier this week on my new blogging community, The Chicago Moms. I hope that you will swing by and check out some of great voices being featured there.

Outdoor concerts are great for all ages. Not so much the Symphony.

I have written before about my love for the CSO’s Kraft Family Matinee series. This series [...]

Hitting Close to Home

Today’s post is part of the From Left to Write online book club. The idea of this book club is not to write a book review, per se, but rather to write a post in which the blogger connects that month’s book to an experience from his or her own life. One of the book club books for May is Good [...]

My Take on Mother's Day

A year ago, I wrote the following post for the Chicago Moms Blog about Mother’s Day and my discomfort with the hype surrounding the holiday. On the eve of Mother’s Day 2011, I thought I would repost it here. This week’s Oak Park Patch also had a provocative Moms Council post about Mother’s Day, which [...]

Type A Poetry

Did Zuzu write the winning haiku for the Type A Parent conference pass?

Zuzu’s second grade class recently finished a unit on expository writing – leading her to say things like “diagrams are a convention of informational texts, Mommy” – and started a unit on poetry. I was interested to see how the wonderful Mrs. M. would teach the kids [...]

An Ultra Date Night

Dinner at Carnivale: breaking out of my suburban rut

One of my three New Year’s resolutions was to have a monthly date night with my husband. When you have small children and busy schedules and limited funds, it is so easy to find yourself sitting in front of a DVD — or more likely in [...]

What the Leprechaun Brought

Who left these little green footprints?

“Mom, you’ve got to come see this!” Zuzu yelled down the stairs. “What is it?” I replied a little too innocently. “Look what the leprechaun brought me! A book about rocks and minerals. And some new earrings! And a Pez for my collection!” “It looks like they left a [...]

From Left to Write: Mr. Rosenblum Dreams in English

Today’s post is part of the From Left to Write online book club. The idea of this book club is not to write a book review, per se, but rather to write a post in which the blogger connects that month’s book to an experience from his or her own life. March’s book is Mr. Rosenblum Dreams in English, a novel [...]

Paying For It: Currency in Marriage

A column about what happens after the wedding is paid for.

This article was first published earlier today as Paying For It: Currency in Marriage on Technorati. You may notice that it has a slightly different tone than a typical West of the Loop post.

The Wall Street Journal weekend edition launched a new column last Sunday, [...]

Curse you, Second Grade!

It might be time to talk to these kids about Internet safety.

I had expected that second grade would be a pivotal year for Zuzu. And it has been. She got her ears pierced. She had her first sleep-over at a friend’s house. She saved up her money to buy a very grown-up iPod Touch. [...]

Father Knows Best

I love being home with these kids. Really.

When I started this blog, almost a year ago, my intent was to write about the subject that weighed most heavily on my mind at that time — the same subject that weighs heavily on me to this day: my decision to step away from my legal [...]

Teaching Kids about Money

"Ooh! I just hate those green pigs!"

Saturday was a big day for seven-year-old Zuzu. After months of saving all of her allowance, birthday money, Hanukkah gelt and Tooth Fairy loot, she finally had enough to buy her heart’s desire: an iPod Touch. I escorted the future tycoon to the Apple store where a nice, tattooed twenty-something named [...]

Navigating Food Allergies: Class Recap

Did you hear? We had a blizzard this week!

Thanks to everyone who participated in Wednesday’s Cooking Connections class, Navigating Food Allergies, with The Motherhood and Lori Sandler from Divvies Bakery. Here’s a funny story about the class: it was scheduled to run from noon to 1 pm, Central Time, on Wednesday. Normally, JR has a [...]

Little Beans Cafe & an Early Childhood Symposium: Resources for Local Mamas

JR managed to locate the foosball table in the lounge room at Little Beans Cafe

Winter is not an easy time to be parent in Chicago. It’s cold and grey. Everyone is tired of being stuck inside. I go a little crazy trying to come up with ways for my kids to burn off some energy when they [...]

Cooking Connections: Navigating Food Allergies

Birthday parties are one of the hardest things for kids with food allergies

I have written many times on this blog about my daughter Zuzu’s food allergies.  In the past seven years of living with Zuzu, I have learned many things about food and food allergies.  I have learned to shop and cook differently; I have learned how to chose [...]

Snow My God

This snow picture is actually from the DC blizzard of Xmas 2009

It looks like there is another snowstorm heading towards the Northeast. It has been a crazy winter in New England and the Mid-Atlantic — to say nothing of the freakishly cold weather in the south that left folks in Atlanta snowbound for days. Lots [...]

The Sisterhood of the Pierced Ear

This post originally appeared earlier this week on my new blogging community, The Chicago Moms. I hope that you will swing by and check out some of great voices being featured there.

My daughter was ushered into a sorority yesterday: the sisterhood of the pierced ear. As I explained in a post written last September, I had originally told Zuzu [...]

Fashion for Tiger Mothers

Everyone I know is talking about Yale Law professor Amy Chua’s piece in the Wall Street Journal about why Chinese mothers are superior to Western mothers. The piece is an teaser from Chua’s upcoming book, Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, on how to raise successful children, successful being defined in this context as “high-achieving to the extreme.”  Chua contrasts Western [...]

On Turning Four

Never fear! The J-Man is here.

J.R. turns four later this month. I’ve already started referring to him as “my four year old” with new people. My husband objects to this practice on the grounds that 1) it’s not accurate and 2) what’s the rush? My response to that is: rounding is the only concept in math that I [...]

Timber Ridge Lodge & Waterpark Review

Lunch at Simple Cafe in Lake Geneva

It’s a Midwestern rite of passage, the winter trip to the indoor water park. Not being from this part of the country, I had never been to one of these ersatz subtropical environments. But then our annual Christmas trip to Florida was canceled by the Blizzard of 2010, [...]

Christmas Culture Wars

This post originally appeared earlier this week on my new blogging community, The Chicago Moms. I hope that you will swing by and check out some of great voices being featured there.

At this time of year, there is a lot of discussion in the media about what I call the Christmas culture wars.  In a multi-ethnic society like ours, [...]

Go Huskies!

In general, I live in fear of the day Zuzu leaves our town’s intimate little public school district and heads off to the enormous public high school that serves Oak Park and River Forest, the aptly named Oak Park River Forest High School. But, the truth is, even though I find the idea of a 3000-person [...]